Thursday, November 09, 2006

Naked, Naked, Naked...


One of Rn_buffon's posts got me to thinking on a somewhat philosophical level. To open, my hubby and I are fairly free with our bodies. I don't sleep in pajamas (unless I'm sick) and neither does he. When we didn't have the kids, we'd come home, get undressed and walk around in the "altogether" until we had to get dressed the next day. We've also talked about some day living somewhere with huge pane, glass windows that make the scenery your own, personal artwork. For us, this would also mean moving out into the middle of nowhere for reasons that should be pretty apparent. Thin or large, it has really made no difference to me and I'm very comfortable this way. It seems natural.

So, here's the question: What would our world, our very existence as humans be like if the serpent had never entered the garden? (assuming you believe in the Genesis creation)

Well, for one, we wouldn't know we were unclothed...at least, at first. I believe the Creator would have given Adam and Eve access to the tree of knowledge, after he felt they were ready for it. I also think they would have been given the knowledge that they lived in a clothing optional world, but that there was no shame in their bodies and being unclothed is a natural and healthy way to be. I could run off on all sorts of tangents here about our existence as it is today with technology and so forth. Would we have that, would we know what we know now, but I'll save that for another time.

Recently, Kirstie Alley appeared on the Oprah show to show off her newly slimmed body in a two piece bathing suit. I didn't see the show, but I read articles after the fact. She talked about how, as a young adult, she never felt comfortable about her body. She was so self conscious and never satisfied with it. It's the same story with so many other women, including myself. Granted, I've always been cool with being naked and at home by myself, but out and around others? Not that I was naked around others, just overly concerned about my body and its appearance in my clothes. Oh, man. I was always worried about my pooch, or my thighs, or my back (yes, my back dammit).

As I aged and became more comfortable with me, those thoughts sort of waned. I adapted my fashion to the age. I did go to high school in the 90's, after all. Man, I could work a mini dress! By college, although I knew I could look better, I was still pretty happy with where I was. It took Kirstie time (and probably some needed time in rehab) to realize her body wasn't her enemy and to embrace who she was/is. I applaud her for her bravery and for her acceptance of who she is. Jamie Lee Curtis did a sort of "embrace who you are" with her layout in More magazine. She displayed herself as she is, day-to-day and then as she is made up like a movie star. I think it all comes down to this: naked or clothed, we should learn to love ourselves for ourselves.

7 comments:

Dee said...

that's a tough one.
good post.
My arms are too long. Always have been. Kids in school teased me mercilessly. Good for volleyball but not so good for looking more human and less apelike. I can scratch my own back though--never need any help with that.

Enchantress said...

Oh,no! Kids can be so incredibly cruel. I bet they didn't say anything when you were spiking that ball over the net. But,it sounds like time has put you in a place now where it's not a big deal...and that's terrific! :)

Miss Construed... said...

Hey Enchantress

I'm not wanting to offend anyone's religious views- just going to throw a spanner into the works... because I studied Philosophy for nine years and don't subscribe to the Genesis creationist view...

If the Creator created Everything-then he must, by definition, have created the Serpent as well...

And If the Creator is All-knowing-and all Omnipotent Beings apparently are- then it/she/he must have Known that Adam and Eve would be tempted by the Tree of Knowledge- and so deliberatley set them up to fail...

What the Lord giveth the Lord taketh away? Sounds like a big old Indian Giver to little old Me!

If I could ask the Creator just one question I'd ask- Who did the dinosaurs pray to? I'd love to know the answer to That one...

Look what happens when you study Philosophy...

(Seriously- No offence meant; just playing the Devil's advocate...)

Dee said...

@ RN_Buffoon
if the creator did not allow "Adam" and "Eve" to choose for themselves between good and evil, we would not be humans but robots--slaves to his/her/its will.

Miss Construed... said...

God's Child...

No offence meant- and I certainly don't want to argue about religion, or anything else for that matter, on Enchantress' blog.

But to me, the story of Adam and Eve is just a parable- an almost 2007 year old story-which has painted Eve(woman) and all her daughter-descendants as being the downfall of man-kind. It is a story (written by a man; they were the only ones who were educated enough) that depicts woman as sly, untrutworthy and morally corupt beings. Ever wonder why it wasn't Adam who caused the big downfall?

Besides- you don't give someone a right( eg free will) and then deny that person from using it, or punish them eternally if they do exercise that right. Especially over an apple!

Sorry, M for ranting on your blog; I remember you've talked about church on your blog so I know you believe like GC also - no so offence meant to either of you. x

Enchantress said...

It's an interesting topic and it was discussed a great deal in my mythology class, so long ago. We were presented with several creation stories...each one more mind boggling than the next. It could really give one a headache trying to delve into all of them. I'm actually glad to see it sparked discussion. We're all intelligent ladies who can speak our minds, while still being sensitive to others beliefs. That's A-okay with me.

dusio said...

Amen! Not that I want everyone to walk around naked, but it might open some eyes to what is really important in life. We all have our flaws and our eyes magnify them when we look at our own bodies.
The world suffers a lot from self loathing and guilt. Whether or not this is passed down by religion or tradition, who knows?